Hi Mike, can you ask her to articulate what about video outbound feels desperate and what specifically she is concerned about? My background is in marketing, the things I would be most concerned about would sales coming off as unprofessional, overwhelming them with messages, i.e. tainting their brand perception, etc. Now do I think that is happening here, probably not and these tactics can co-exist together. Two suggestions and I'm sure there are more out there...
1.) Can you share the plan/scripts and get her feedback
2.) Can you use your plan but incorporate value added items throughout the campaign that would make her more comfortable? For example, you do outreach, then maybe the second is a message inviting them to a webinar, then the next is something else entirely